The pain caused by a partner’s unfaithfulness is probably one of the worst kinds of pain possible to experience…certainly it is one of the worst that can dealt with in the context of your marriage or relationship.  It hits like an overwhelming wave in the Gulf just...

    February 17, 2015. The drive out of my neighborhood is landscaped with a long row of Bradford Pear trees growing in the middle of a grass filled median.  It is an especially pretty drive, with the row of trees looking exceedingly different during each...

  As promised in last week’s post, I have a little story for you.  So, I’ll be having a cup of hot tea and an almond biscotti while we sit together.  Go ahead.  I’ll wait while you get a cup of coffee or tea for yourself.  When you get back, we’ll start with our...

Is it possible to live this way?  Perhaps you’ve just discovered that your mate has betrayed you and you feel like you’ve been kicked in the stomach, or perhaps you’ve known for quite a long time but still feel the weight of what has happened like octopus arms hanging...